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Havanna posted: 24 Sep at 9:22 pm
why not the invitation? i sent out a small piece of paper that said… we are registered at ….. it was tasteful, i couldnt think of a better place to put it lol
**B2B 07/11/2009** posted: 25 Sep at 11:44 pm
WORD OF MOUTH. Have your maid of honor, parents, and wedding party spread the word. Or if you have a wedding web-site it’s fine to post it there!
jellybeancounter posted: 27 Sep at 8:27 am
If someone is throwing you a bridal shower, the registry cards can go with the invites. It is not up to you to inform people (in writing) about where you’re registered. If people want to know they can ask you, your parents or a member of your bridal party.
Joan Crawford’s Crazy Eyes posted: 30 Sep at 4:39 pm
You have your mom/best friend/sister quietly spread the word for you. Also, most people will ask you straight out. Don’t put it on the card – tacky, tacky, tacky.
richard t posted: 01 Oct at 11:30 am
there is that little pre wedding card…magnetic so it sits of the frig………put it on there.they will see it every time they open the frig
Leather and Lace posted: 03 Oct at 5:36 am
It should be mentioned with the bridal shower invitations but you can also slip it in with the wedding invitations. I have seen it done many times and it is completely acceptable.
Louise H posted: 05 Oct at 5:23 pm
don’t put in on the actual invite – but a separate card with the details in the envelope (with the rsvp card) would ok. Or leave it for people to call (normally they’d call your mother). Maybe put in a for more information card – with either your website address or your parents (or a friend) phone number for them to call if they need more info who could pass it on.
1065jada posted: 06 Oct at 5:16 pm
Why arent you having a shower thats where you register for and out on invite. Weddings you get mostly $$ in a card. Have things change this much??? I would rather get the $$ at wedding not a gift. The gifts I’ll get at my shower.
tscotthargadon posted: 09 Oct at 7:46 am
I say word of mouth is good. Also usually when you register somewhere they have little cards that you can put inside your invitations. That’s what I did. Also at some stores they have a coordinator that sits down with you and asks for your guest list so they can notify them by email or something.Good luck with your planning.
Vashti posted: 11 Oct at 1:54 am
Tell your mom, his mom, your maid of honor so when people ask them they’ll know where to direct them. It’s OK for you to tell people where you’re registered, but they have to ask first.
CoffeeJunky posted: 11 Oct at 3:42 am
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again…phooie to wedding etiquette.
All the silly rules surrounding weddings, are…well, silly!
The people you are inviting are your friends and family, right? If you let them know where you’re registered it’s not going to come across as rude or pushy. It is what it is…a bride and groom letting their guests know that if they should so feel to get a gift for their FRIEND, this is where they can get it.
Here’s what I did for our upcoming July wedding. At the end of invitation I put:
Gift Idea:
(picture of an envelope)
Presentation appreciated, our trunk will already be full.
We’re driving halfway across the country to have our wedding in my hometown. Our car is going to be packed and we won’t have room for gifts. We already have an established household so we don’t really need gifts anyhow. We stated that we would appreciate presentation (meaning that it’s not necesarry).
Think of it this way, if you received a wedding invite from a friend or family member, and it was mentioned where they were registered either on the invite or the RSVP card, would YOU be insulted?
Put it at the end of the invite, or on the RSVP card. It’s really not a big deal.
jt posted: 11 Oct at 4:43 am
I agree with Havanna.I just got an invitation to a wedding from a girl at work and she did the same thing she just had slips of paper in her invitation with where she was registered.You could print them off or the store may even have some for you with their name ask customer service when you register.
Shannon posted: 13 Oct at 2:51 pm
On the bridal shower invitation.
kwflamingo posted: 16 Oct at 10:12 am
That info is usually included on the shower invitation by whoever is hosting the shower.